So they call me names...
For those of you who don't know I'm dating Matt aka Brimstone now. Problem is I've gotten Soooooo much crap about it from everyone! People talking about me behind my back calling everything short of a full fledged slut. Yes I know that I just got out of a relationship, but in all actuallity that never would have gone anywhere. James was awesome, don't get me wrong. However we were complete opposites in every way. He was into History, me science. He liked watching football and watched TV nightly, I turn the TV on once every 2 weeks, if even that. He drank and smoked, I'm not much into alcohol and smoking well that's just horribly disgusting.
I'm tired of hearing everyone's opinion on me and my relationships. People just treat me like I sleep around, and really that's soooooo untrue. Frankly I think sex is discusting right now and I'm so not ready for it. Matt and I are dating now because frankly it was going to happen soon anyway, and after being dumped I wasn't going to sit around and sulk for a month, it's just not me. Part of me wishes I was single now because I absolutely love being single, and it annoys me when everyone sits around and complains non-stop about how they don't have a guy/girl. But the other part of me knows that dating is a part of life, and that no matter who you date, or when you date them people are always going to talk bad about you.
So to those of you unhappy with me in anway, get over it. I don't care what you think of me. If you like me, then awesome. If you don't then there isn't really anything I can do to change your mind, so there's absolutely no point in trying. There's over 6 billion people in this world, if you don't like me, well boo hoo I'm not going to go be emo about it. For those of you who don't like who I'm dating, the timing, or anything else about that it's a little late now, it's happened and you can't change the past. No one will tell me what to do, who I should befriend, or who I should date. If I want your opinion I will generally ask for it, but you forcing your views on me is NOT productive.
I'm Kat, not anyone else. I know I'm odd but...that's me: love it or leave it.
posted by Katharina at 8:40 PM
3 Comments:
KAT!!!! I love rants! It is like pure, unadulterated, anger, rage, and humor all rolled into a large spikey ball! I don't blame you at all. I'm in your corner on this one!
Welcome to the double-edged sword of blogs! You can say what you want, but if you aren't careful, you can piss some people off... Good luck keeping fresh material for the blog! I ran out about 3 months ago! :P
Seriously, if you're getting called everything short of a slut, then count your blessings and don't worry about what people say. It's a good day when if you lived in a middle eastern country and don't get stoned when you leave your house. You and Matt dating, it's your business, you won't get any complaints from my general direction.
Coming from a friend point of view, you need to find someone that you get along with really well, someone that you can communicate with easily and often, someone who shares a large amount of common activities and beliefs to make the previous happen. Dating me or anyone else, you have to be happy with the results and not let other people get in the way. As soon as you let them affect you, then you've lost what makes you you.
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